tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-65618774033042795392024-03-08T12:01:50.898-08:00Musings of a MuleTrudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.comBlogger135125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-41379625908038328212018-01-07T15:03:00.001-08:002018-01-07T15:03:05.883-08:00Prep transition So term 3 and 4 the year before prep, there are prep transition sessions. There were 8 over these 2 terms. They were short (45mins) sessions to help introduce the idea of the primary school environment and the teachers to the kids.<br />
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There were also concurrent parent information sessions to help parents transit too. Eg. The parents association, the uniforms requirements, the principal, the school grounds, etc.<br />
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Another aspect of my transition that helped is talking to the kinder mums who have an older sibling at the primary school already. I asked them about uniforms, what the teachers are like, if their child coped well, etc. All were really helpful with the information.<br />
<br />Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-27995035767454602692018-01-04T23:19:00.001-08:002018-01-04T23:19:18.985-08:00How to choose a school?Actually I'm still not sure if I've picked the right school. It's definitely not the best school. It's a convenient school for us as it's walking distance.<br />
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So one website that is available is https://www.myschool.edu.au<br />
It says it has an index of community socioeducational advantage (ICSEA). No matter how I read it sounds like socioeconomic status of the school community. So I guess the higher the number the better off the students' families are.<br />
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They use the naplan testing here. I don't really know what they test on these tests yet. Apparently some schools are pretty relaxed about this. <br />
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One way to see if a particular student cohort has added value is to look at this chart. If they are about national average then the school is performing pretty average. If the school is doing better than average than that is evident on this graph.<br />
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We also did the school tours to have a look at school facilities and to meet the principal and to get a feel of the school.Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-6089451767632897712018-01-04T22:10:00.000-08:002018-01-04T22:10:33.471-08:00Negotiating the education system in Melbourne Because we don't have experience with the education system in Australia except for tertiary education, it's a learning process for us. And of course we'll keep comparing with what we did or had.<br />
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So far the ranking of students in Singapore is higher compared to Australia students. Whether this be in literacy, numeracy. What are they doing right? What are we doing wrong? And how can I supplement my child's education experience to get the best of both worlds?<br />
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With 3children, we are going via the public school system. End January would be the start of prep where my 4 going on 5year old enters primary school. Into the big world. I am worried as the environment is no longer controlled and small. I am worried that she will be bullied and isn't resilient enough. She is excited to be going to big school. She is all ready she thinks.<br />
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Hopefully we manage to provide you a description of our experiences in this country's school.Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-37520534533727043542016-04-28T15:34:00.000-07:002016-04-28T15:36:15.248-07:00Another projectWe tried out another project from the dinosaur book. The preschooler cut out her own bits with her own kid friendly scissors.<br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<br />Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-54017297884534393892016-04-28T15:28:00.000-07:002016-04-28T15:28:58.179-07:00The Tea Salon at Emporium We stumbled upon the Tea Salon at Emporium with my sister and little niece. The 2 little girls were so excited by the pretty things in the store! The pretty teacups, the pretty plates, the gorgeous wallpaper... they hopped onto the couch and started playing tea party even before we had decided to sit down to have afternoon tea. <div>
<span style="line-height: normal;">We selected the high tea for 2 adults and the kids just ate whatever was served. Actually they only ate the pretty cakes and left the not so pretty ones for the adults. Gosh, how they have a eye for things.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: normal;">I thought it was a great place for afternoon tea. </span><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-50130282020846035582016-04-28T15:11:00.000-07:002016-04-28T15:11:10.902-07:00dinosaur artI think having a preschooler means that we explore alot of the world and her interests together. It also gives me a reason to pick up my art tools again and reintroduce creativity into my life. We were exploring dinosaurs and sharp teeth!<br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Instructions from the book<br /></td></tr>
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Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-50008624969001387052016-02-20T00:58:00.001-08:002016-02-20T00:58:32.031-08:00Masada sleep school weekend residential programI couldn't find any blogs about the weekend program, so I thought I might share our experience.<br />
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So after little steps at Monash Council, we went on an overseas holiday (major disruption to routine), had different caregivers (who prefer that babies don't cry), I went back to work... So by 10months, baby was rocked to sleep for her day naps, sleeps on a person for the second cycle, rocked to sleep at night, and needed more rocking every time she woke up, and after 12am, I succumb to giving her the breast to suck while I keep sleeping beside her. We were needing to get up about 4-6times overnight.<br />
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So the decision to go to Masada to get some help. I didn't want to take a week off work, so opted to do the 2weekend program. The aim was to get someone to break the sleep associations that the baby had.<br />
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We got admitted Saturday afternoon, talked about our goals and routine and how to adjust the routine to an age appropriate routine. We handed baby over to help with the afternoon sleep, then the nighttime sleep. I was fortunate to have a room away from the babies, so I couldn't hear them cry (which is also odd for me). There were only 8 of us so it wasn't a busy and noisy ward.<br />
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The next day was us settling the babies and the staff teaching us what to do. I must say, I didn't get to settle the baby at all because she didn't hit the time for a grizzle.<br />
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Discharge was on Monday at 0800. I had intended to go to work but decided that bad city traffic and wanting to implement the routine at home, so I took Monday off work. I should have planned it better and taken that day off anyway.<br />
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We stuck to the routine and principles and managed a week with good day and night sleeps. I was wondering if I needed to go back to that second weekend and decided that we needed to consolidate what we had learnt.<br />
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Baby performed amazingly and sailed through the second weekend.<br />
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Now is the third weekend and we are doing 7.30pm to 6.30am night sleeps with no rocking, no breastfeeding, no patting. She is relieved to be in the cot. Hopefully she keeps going well!<br />
<br />Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-10379387001434864512015-07-26T08:15:00.000-07:002015-07-26T08:15:28.428-07:00Working mumI must say, other mummy's blogs make me feel like its a diary of sorts, sharing with others your story and sometimes your situation is similar to someone else's and could be advice for that other person.<br />
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Being pregnant the second time felt harder. The nausea and the fatigue during pregnancy was much worse. I felt like I was juggling between work, being on call, temperamental bosses, a toddler and pregnancy.<br />
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Luckily, darling hubby was amazing. He took care of the toddler and did most of the household chores during this time so I could rest whenever I could. My toddler hardly saw me on weekdays and learnt how to say 'ipad' before 'mummy'.<br />
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Luckily, my work colleagues were understanding and did some weekend on calls for me.Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-35986275132475051812015-07-18T14:44:00.001-07:002015-07-18T14:44:18.962-07:00On the search of free toddler fun: Springvale homemaker centreWinter is too cold for outdoor fun, so we had to look for indoor fun for the little rambunctious toddler.<br />
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Springvale homemaker centre is about 20 mins from our place. It houses Ikea, Harvey Norman, Babyco, etc. We went initially to get furniture and electrical appliances for the new place.<br />
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Ikea was fun in terms of its displays and ideas. The toddler had lots of fun with jumping onto couches, playing in the children ikea section, playing in the ikea cafe playspace in the middle of the cafe. The service in ikea was a nightmare. We had to pick out our own boxes, cart them to another counter for them to be delivered. If you wanted help assembling the furniture, that was another company. Service wasn't seamless. Ah well. That's what you get with Ikea, I suppose.<br />
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Harvey Norman price matched my fridge and my washing machine, so I didn't have to make another trip down to The Good Guys. They delivered and installed those for abit extra. I was happy with the service here.<br />
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There is an indoor playground for the children to run around in. It's shoes off and no adults. But parents (being of all kinds), still went in to hover around their kids playing. Argh! Unless your child is a crawler or your child has a disability that requires your close supervision, just let them play. Watch in a distance please.<br />
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We happened to be there in the school holidays and the toddler managed to have a go at the 'zoo on wheels' section. She quickly got the hang of it and loved the little Panda she was riding on. I think the toy encouraged gross motor coordination. Brilliant invention.<br />
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We went back when Jimmy Giggle was there doing a meet and greet session. The queue was too long for a personal photo. The place was extremely crowded on a weekend.<br />
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Pluses: big covered carpark, parents room available, great family friendly cafe with Ikea, family friendly car park spots on Ikea's side<br />
Minuses: I wish there was more eating places besides ikea and a cafe, I was also wishing there was a small grocer so I could pick up a loaf of bread along the way, rather than having to stop at another place.Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-48550928833448094912015-07-09T14:19:00.001-07:002015-07-09T14:19:20.703-07:00Little Steps Program by City of MonashI thought I should make a blog about our sleeping journey, although I must say it is pretty common, the troubles we are having.<br />
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Newborn, high maintenance baby, needing to be rocked or nursed to sleep, would not be put down in the cot, asleep or awake or drowsy, sleeps on parents' chest or lap, wakes up when you stop rocking, finally falls asleep and wakes up when she hears a noise and starts looking around being very distracted. On top of that, a toddler that barges in every time the baby sleeps, waking the baby up.<br />
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The deadline, going back to work at 5months post baby, so would need a routine and to be able to put baby down asleep, so 1 adult could care for 2 kids- a toddler and a 5month old, and cook.<br />
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So, at 3months, a musical mobile went up in the cot, baby C was enjoying time awake in the cot. We put her as often as possible on the floor and in the rocking chair, so she enjoys time apart.<br />
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Our eat-play-sleep routine became eat-play-eat to sleep routine. And then sleeping on the lap. And if I so much as sneezed, the baby woke up! Gosh, that's not refreshing sleep at all.<br />
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After reading a tweddle book (borrowed from the library), I had some quiet time before a nap, put her down, set my timer when I started my 'comforting' to her crying, but never seemed to get her any quieter in 15 mins anyway, so picked her up. I couldn't bear another 15 mins of heart wrenching crying, so toughed it out to 5mins the next few times with no avail. Maybe she's not developmentally ready, I thought, so gave up.<br />
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Picked up Elizabeth Pantley's book and thought I would at least use some techniques here. Repeatedly detach the nursing baby! Don't wait till the nipple falls out of their mouth. Try to create more than 1 sleep association. Put baby down!<br />
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Read divinity domestic blog about her Masada experience, and realised a dark room and a snug tucked in blanket was essential, so started to implement that too.<br />
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So the baby sleeps in her under-used cot for a grand total of 4 times x 15-20 mins after all this.<br />
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Come our 4month maternal child health nurse wellness visit, and our dear nurse broaches on the topic of sleep. At this point I was thinking or dreaming about Masada and whether I should give it a try. Our dear nurse makes a referral to Little Steps program and that afternoon I get a phone call from Natasha to say that they had a late cancellation, and they could have us in that Wednesday. Godsend!<br />
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There are 3 rooms, with 3 families and 2 nurses. They take turns getting to know the babies and families and showing us how to settle the babies down to sleep.<br />
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The things I learnt were:<br />
-that the tired cues happen so early on and subtly and I had always missed them. My baby C was tugging her clothes and gazing away, mixed in with being engaged and smiling. No wonder the term 'tired cues' not 'tired signs'. By the time the cues are there all the time, they become tired signs and she is already too tired. The more tired she is, the harder it is for her to settle, the longer she was going to have to cry it out.<br />
-settling was not about 1patting technique for 5mins. It is a variety of techniques used to see which one calmed her down. I don't have to pat her to sleep, I'm only patting her to calm down, and then I let her find her own way into sleep.<br />
-being very firm about sleep. Sending the message that 'it's time for sleep' and persisting at it for a while.<br />
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It was very helpful to see a skilled nurse do the steps and see that baby C (and all the other babies) managed to settle and sleep in the cot. It gave me confidence that baby C was ready to learn this self soothing steps. I was now equipped with the knowledge and short experience of being able to help baby C in this learning.<br />
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Day 1 at home yielded all the day sleeps in the cot, we managed a second sleep cycle with minimal patting, then we managed a sleep with no patting (she did it all on her own), and a long sleep of 4hours (she has never slept independently for 4hours before, ever).<br />
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Today is day 2, and I'm hoping things would go a similar way. :)<br />
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<br />Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-61561009771512241902014-02-08T20:32:00.002-08:002014-02-08T20:32:51.988-08:00Return to workWell, did week 1 of full time work at a new hospital after a year off.<br />
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Sure I had gone back to do some locum work before this. But the shifts were in the same hospital, people were friendly and generally very happy to see me back at work and caught up with details wrt baby and parenthood. And likewise, I was very happy to catch up about their lives.<br />
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So new hospital where people don't know you, aren't very friendly (big city behavior), and nothing really works and don't really care if it works. So the whole experience hasn't been too positive yet.<br />
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I go in wanting to work hard but get told to work harder.<br />
I go in wanting to be friendly but get told that I have to be firm about these referrals.<br />
I go in wanting to be not grumpy but am surrounded by grumpy people anyway.<br />
I go in wanting to be organised but am faced with a dysfunctional not organised system anyway.<br />
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The expectations from the bosses, the team and myself are higher. So what else to do but to try to meet them. To embrace the challenges and to improve myself and hopefully the unit/ team as much as possible.Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-74840911735954560502013-08-26T18:37:00.002-07:002013-08-26T18:37:21.992-07:00Infant air travel part 2Baby R wasn't very happy on the flight and was finding it hard to fall asleep when she was tired. Maybe it was the unfamiliar environment, the loud plane.<br />
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She continued to cry until I finally gave her a bottle of milk, then realised that maybe she was finding it hard to settle because she had only half of her feed before takeoff and needed a good volume of milk in her tummy to settle. I tried as hard as I could to keep her to her feed play sleep routine on the plane. She only allowed herself to be put down on the bassinet once for 20 mins and was carried by me the whole time otherwise. Partway she did let one of the air stewardess to carry and the mum sitting next to me to carry so I could use the toilet and wolf down my meal. Thank you to the flight attendants on singapore airlines for being so attentive to me and my baby.<br />
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Lessons learnt?<br />
Be thick- skinned and ask for help<br />
Bring extra bottles because baby might not nurse on the boobs. I'll try the pacifier next time too, except I'm not sure if she'll take it.<br />
Have your bag next to you for easy access of feeds, toys, nappies<br />
Apologise and thank people around you profusely.<br />
Bring alot of patience and energy together with you on the flight!<br />
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What was your first experience with flying with your infant?Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-16900872652655411892013-08-26T16:47:00.001-07:002013-08-26T16:47:25.773-07:00Infant air travel -part1So I bravely decided to bring baby R onto the plane to make a trip to singapore at 5& 1/2 months. On my own. I thought I had read up on every tip possible to prepare myself. Still the ride was unpleasant.<br />
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We got to the airport in a taxi without a carseat which was somewhat scary. This was the first time we had travelled without a carseat. I had decided to use the baby bjorn.<br />
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I had already done Internet checkin so had the benefit of a shorter queue. I had also packed very lightly, so only had 1checkin luggage (about 10kg), and a hand carry (about 7kg). Went to clear customs (the queue was short) and I got spotted by the customs officer and was allowed to 'jump' queue.<br />
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Because it was about time for a feed, I gave baby R one boob to nurse, thinking to give her the other boob at take off to nurse from to relieve air pressure on the ears. There was a parents room near the departure lounge. (2star). Going to the toilet was difficult with the baby bjorn. We hang around the departure lounge and got spotted by an airport officer to go to the waiting lounge for early boarding with the other passengers needing wheelchair assistance and other families with infants. The other family with infant had a pram that the airport staff packed away prior to boarding. The husband of that family offered to carry my bag, but I was managing ok.<br />
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When we got on, we got given an infant belt to attach to the adult seat belt. I had requested a bassinet so we couldn't put our bags under our seat at the beginning. Baby R was very tired at this point because I kept disrupting her attempts to sleep . She played on my lap while waiting for the other passengers to board. She became quite inconsolable upon takeoff and won't latch on the boobs to nurse. She ended up crying at the top of her lungs and sucking her fingers to help with ear pressure (I hope it helped, anyway). There was an Asian man who sat beside me who was probably very uncomfortable when I flashed my boobs and so changed seats with his wife after takeoff. I was so glad of that because the wife was so helpful throughout the flight.Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-81984863108051676472013-06-02T05:23:00.002-07:002013-06-02T05:23:38.987-07:00Happy 3rd month, Baby RT!3rd month is when she is officially an infant and no longer a newborn. End of 4th trimester. Had to go out shopping for larger sized clothes and pack away the smaller newborn clothes.Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-9351685053068848902013-06-02T05:21:00.001-07:002013-06-02T05:21:45.245-07:00Brain on Fire: My month of madnessby Susannah Cahalan.<br />
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on her personal experience of NMDA encephalitis. Most of her experience I had probably gleaned from the many patients whom I'd come into contact with suffering from delirium.<br />
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The most poignant learning point was that, as a neurologist, not to give up on searching for a diagnosis.Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-44624489369357645482013-06-02T05:17:00.001-07:002013-06-02T05:17:22.168-07:00Myer Melbourne parents roomUsed the Myer Melbourne parents room on Saturday.<br />
It was on level 3 where the children's clothes were sold. Large-ish room. 2 parent child toilets. 2 cubicles for privacy of breastfeeding. 10 single armchairs to sit and feed (formula/ breast). 2 nappy change areas. sink. microwave. quite clean. I think I'll give it a 4star.<br />
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QV shopping centre had recently renovated its toilets on ground floor. 2 baby change toilets, of which there is a plastic chair that you could sit in to breast feed in private if desperate. No separate door/ cubicle for the toilet though. Felt and smelt like you were breast feeding in the toilet still. There was a microwave in the baby change room though. 2star.Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-21810002401906799822013-05-28T01:11:00.001-07:002013-05-28T01:11:15.301-07:00homemade red bean paste<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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the canned red bean paste are too sweet for my liking. Finally found a recipe from: http://justonecookbook.com/blog/how-to/how-to-make-anko-red-bean-paste/ which goes through the whole making process step by step. I've always wanted to make this. Tasted quite good!Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-18530004565280818672013-05-27T21:39:00.003-07:002013-05-27T21:39:57.354-07:00Baby J full moon celebrationsOur first trip to Melbourne was to Baby J's full moon celebrations. We weren't sure how Baby A was going to take it. She did alright though. Slept in the car seat there and back. Cried a little on the way back. I realised how hard it is to photograph children! Y said I was the only person who probably took blurred photos with a dslr camera. In the whole midst of taking other people's photos, we didn't take any of ourselves. Yish.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">J and Baby A -- i thought this shot was very well taken!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">C and his lovely 2 girls</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">T and her 6 month old baby girl<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"> </span></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Baby J who was asleep for most of his celebrations</td></tr>
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<br />Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-37307628843273739712013-05-27T21:26:00.002-07:002013-05-27T21:43:34.567-07:00Is she doing it yet?<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">looking at faces and smiling</td></tr>
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Reading up on developmental milestones for baby means that I'm looking at baby and thinking, 'Why AREN'T you doing these things yet?!'<br />
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Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-87099003926636892792013-05-27T21:23:00.002-07:002013-05-27T21:23:14.220-07:00pancakes<div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
still exploring new recipes. I thought it'll be nice to make pancakes but had always bought the store bought premix, added water, shake and panfry them. Found an easy online recipe. Turned out not too sweet at all :)</div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">added my own homemade red bean paste to the pancake. Yum. </td></tr>
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Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-43147628555895298202013-05-27T21:13:00.002-07:002013-05-27T21:13:41.765-07:00Baby Blessing CeremonyWe went down to Federation Square on the 18th May 2013 for the Baby Blessing Ceremony as part of Buddha's Day Celebration organised by BLIA (Victoria). Buddha's Day is a yearly event to celebrate Vesak Day (Buddha's birth, enlighenment, life) in Melbourne.<br />
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There were alot of babies. The ceremony started off with the Venerables chanting homage then the Heart Sutra. Then everyone lined up to be blessed by the Venerables. There was a souvenir of wrist rosary (child size) and a certificate of participation for the child. Balloons were also given out and pictures taken.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Blessing by the Venerables</td></tr>
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Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-81603107161600371622013-05-27T21:03:00.004-07:002013-05-27T21:03:42.085-07:00toys<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
It was sunny the other day so the toys decided to have a dunk in the pail and have a sunbath. Bub can now put the toys in her mouth. </div>
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<br />Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-13215373114800006212013-05-27T21:01:00.000-07:002013-05-27T21:01:10.904-07:00Westfield Geelong parents roomlocated just outside myers on the first floor probably deserves a rating of 5 stars for parents room.<br />
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I ventured in yesterday and the room was as big as the neighbouring female toilets. Has a sink, filtered water tap, microwave, a 2 seater couch, a toddler play area with a TV (childproof lock), 2 cubicles each with an armchair and a side table for breast feeding and a curtain (like in fitting rooms in clothes stores), nappy change table with hand sanitiser on the wall, and a parent and child toilet. The parent room was well lit and clean and no nappy smell at all. The door was a sliding door with a control button mechanism so it doesn't open all the time when someone walks pass.<br />
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Great job, Westfield Geelong!Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-45021500029432021242013-05-21T01:01:00.000-07:002013-05-21T01:01:03.852-07:00Baby care rooms in melbourne<a href="https://www.breastfeeding.asn.au/babycare" target="_blank">https://www.breastfeeding.asn.au/babycare</a> is a list of baby care rooms compiled by Australia breastfeeding association. Not updated and highly inadequate.<br />
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Interesting how one develops a blind spot when the issue does not apply to you.<br />
We made a trip down to federation square to join in the Buddha's day celebration, specifically the baby blessing ceremony (nb, babies abound!).<br />
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Bub then cries frantically to be fed. There is a baby change room near the male, female, disabled toilets near the atruim but nowhere to feed bub. All I need is a seat, a clean quiet private room, clearly marked to feed bub. Sure I'm 'allowed' to feed bub anywhere, but I'm not comfortable. And not everyone out there is comfortable to watch us or walk by us. Our last resort was going to be in the car in the carpark (I had stashed my nursing pillow there before we left home).<br />
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We ended up in the change/ store room of the volunteers organizing Buddhas day because I knew some of them. Crisis averted.<br />
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I reckon I should compile a better list of available rooms.<br />
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Do you know where these nursing mothers rooms are? What would you like in these rooms?Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561877403304279539.post-88013858020127246122013-05-09T20:11:00.000-07:002013-05-09T20:11:59.658-07:00Cool business ideaHere is a really cool business idea: mamatongsoup.com<br />
For those living in USA and wanting to enjoy some of the benefits of the chinese confinement foods, here's a business that would send prepackaged soups to you. Great for baby shower gifts too!<br />
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She links us to www.thechinesesouplady.com to a family in hongkong who have put up so many soup recipes and actually tell you what those chinese herbal ingredients are and for. Very informative!Trudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07141920864321089299noreply@blogger.com0